tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post8400318063603972119..comments2023-03-27T04:54:29.263-07:00Comments on Butterflies and Hurricanes: Tonight I choose to be sadAsthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-39354450155157646622013-04-09T05:47:47.657-07:002013-04-09T05:47:47.657-07:00Nailed on spot! I think everyone goes through this...Nailed on spot! I think everyone goes through this phase called - Quarter Life Crisis and then things change rapidly! I almost feel no one can help losing friends in the journey of life and we must keep going on , meeting more beautiful people on the way. That's the way it is! :)NPARIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00575872287928479058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-25697690043450853682012-05-23T09:04:40.538-07:002012-05-23T09:04:40.538-07:00Thank you! How you manage to be a perfect person a...Thank you! How you manage to be a perfect person and the best best friend is beyond me! You're beyond awesome.Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-5229136660333642572012-05-18T18:49:03.199-07:002012-05-18T18:49:03.199-07:00It's beautiful and heartbreaking. How you mana...It's beautiful and heartbreaking. How you manage to use the perfect words is beyond me. Nostalgic and hopeful about the future at the same time. A perfect adieu. You're awesome :)Qwertyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16631524423795294097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-83523437203612077632012-05-16T12:29:29.495-07:002012-05-16T12:29:29.495-07:00I must have interpreted it all to mean whatever it...I must have interpreted it all to mean whatever it was that I was feeling. Strangely enough, I've only drifted apart from people who've moved away - friends who stay ten minutes away are very close to me physically and mentally. I wonder what that says about my ability to keep friendships going. <br /><br />And yes, why not? :D Toothless people can have good times, too! :DTangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-39530224841279435512012-05-16T07:25:10.494-07:002012-05-16T07:25:10.494-07:00Poignant and very well expressed!!!Poignant and very well expressed!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-56344405738298767782012-05-15T10:40:34.911-07:002012-05-15T10:40:34.911-07:00Thank you Priya di! :)
That's a big thing to s...Thank you Priya di! :)<br />That's a big thing to say! xoxoAsthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-54006076945450988922012-05-15T10:34:51.614-07:002012-05-15T10:34:51.614-07:00Thank you Ankita! :)
I read your kitty story too! ...Thank you Ankita! :)<br />I read your kitty story too! I really liked it :)Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-38962257642304126912012-05-15T10:32:56.373-07:002012-05-15T10:32:56.373-07:00Karishma, thank you! and lovely comment once again...Karishma, thank you! and lovely comment once again :)<br />I've always wanted to fast forward time so badly but now when it's actually passing in front of my eyes, I want to cling on to it some more.<br />I just thought of an image of myself old and toothless and having Masala magic Lay's with another toothless oldie and giggled :D<br /><br />But here I wasn't talking about losing friends because of moving away, but because of misunderstandings, or reasons that you are never able to fathom. When you're physically close, but emotionally you just drift apart.Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-67436812147402227012012-05-15T10:28:01.658-07:002012-05-15T10:28:01.658-07:00Thank you Ruhani. I feel so successful when I'...Thank you Ruhani. I feel so successful when I'm able to pass on my feelings to my readers and especially when they are able to relate to what I write. Your comment made me smile. You're right. We do move on and new people, new friends do come along :)Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-75451086618809207272012-05-15T10:23:18.739-07:002012-05-15T10:23:18.739-07:00Thank you :) that's a big compliment. Even you...Thank you :) that's a big compliment. Even you are able to express your thoughts very succinctly :)<br />I guess the drifting apart bit happens on its own with time. Pretty much nothing you can do about it. Cest la vie!Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-85863816118897968182012-05-15T10:20:17.834-07:002012-05-15T10:20:17.834-07:00thank you! :)thank you! :)Asthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18442617490138432785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-12076235465011157972012-05-15T00:42:40.999-07:002012-05-15T00:42:40.999-07:00beautiful article again!!!! How on Earth do u mana...beautiful article again!!!! How on Earth do u manage to put feelings in words so perfectly!!! ur God Gifted!! xxxxxPriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02672348238129097339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-24306351929225383172012-05-14T23:14:27.312-07:002012-05-14T23:14:27.312-07:00Hi Astha,
Wonderful post, I can relate to it.
In s...Hi Astha,<br />Wonderful post, I can relate to it.<br />In sync with Ruhani, it gave me a heartache.. but i loved the post.<br />Its really really difficult to live without people who meant so much!<br />But thats life.. :)<br />I love ur writings..<br />Best wishes,<br />AnkitaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-38747247683237184112012-05-14T11:02:50.576-07:002012-05-14T11:02:50.576-07:00I think this bit is the toughest of our lives - yo...I think this bit is the toughest of our lives - you know that there will come a day when you have to say goodbye to a friend but you choose to live as if it won't. Makes it harder when it does.<br /><br />Right now, this very moment, I know that the choices I've made allow me to stay back with my friends and my family for a few more years and I'm grateful that I can. But I'm only delaying the inevitable I think. Also, friends who are leaving now are leaving for good. There is no going back.<br /><br />Now onward it is about snatching for ourselves a few days or a few weeks of time for the rest of this lifetime. But maybe, just maybe, when we're 80 and sitting in those comfy chairs, we could still be munching Magic Masala Lay's with our dentures. ;)<br /><br />Loved this post, Astha! Makes me want to stop time and fast-forward it at the same time! :)Tangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-80058325820205417902012-05-14T03:28:47.123-07:002012-05-14T03:28:47.123-07:00This post made my heart ache. The feeling of losin...This post made my heart ache. The feeling of losing people who you once thought the world of is beyond explanation. The void they leave in your life seems to be one which can never be filled. It feels like a hole in your heart. But I know one thing for sure. No matter how hard you think it is, eventually you DO move on. And find better people who fill those empty spaces in your life. And those are the people who're ACTUALLY here to stay :)Ruhanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11195860458634557756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-79510545530493903972012-05-14T02:10:23.007-07:002012-05-14T02:10:23.007-07:00I love EVERYTHING in this post. You pretty much wr...I love EVERYTHING in this post. You pretty much wrote down a lot of what goes on in my head, I can just never find the words to express stuff like this. <br /><br />I don't think I'm good at keeping friends either, I just let them drift apart and push people away :/<br /><br />Good luck to you though :)<br />It's okay to be sad sometimes.PurpleMist.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11073902079435835020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353940306100083976.post-20044625918061190042012-05-13T21:28:42.819-07:002012-05-13T21:28:42.819-07:00all the best :)all the best :)phaticharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01458914636112852499noreply@blogger.com